Let me explain what I mean. If you were to be made unemployed then you wouldn't be scared, you would be busy with sorting out what new jobs you can get, whether you can afford the rent so you have something to focus your attention on.
Whereas before that you would be worrying about if you are going to lose your job, whether it is something you need to worry about at all, where can you get a new job from. Essentially you have all the same questions but there is absolutely nothing you can do so much so that is a relief when you get the news, good or bad, so that you can actually do something to sort it all out.
The same thing can be applied to illness, exams or relationships. We may have an inkling about what will happen or plan what to do but it all comes back to this fear of the unknown. And as far as I know there is nothing to stop it apart from listening to the snowballing panic stricken thoughts your brain creates.
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